When you get a new job, there a few weeks when you are getting yourself oriented. You are learning where people take their breaks, who is friendly and who you might want to avoid. You are learning what everyone does at your new company and how they can help you do your job. You are figuring out the best place to park your car and the best time to arrive and leave every day. You are in an adjustment period.

There is also an adjustment period when a new dog comes into your family. They are trying to figure out where they eat and sleep, who likes them to jump on their bed and who doesn't. They are trying to learn what is expected of them and who can help them in accomplishing their goals. Even if your new dog was fostered in a foster home, they still need to understand what the rules of your house are compared to those at their foster house.

Just as with a new job, they will need time to understand where you prefer they use the restroom and where you want them to sleep. Their feeding schedule may be different from what they are used to and they will need to get familiar with the new sleeping arrangements.

It is very important that you and your family decide what will be acceptable behavior for the dog before the dog is brought home. Everyone must agree on the rules so the dog only has one set of rules to follow. Decide if the dog is allowed on the furniture and where you expect him to do his business in the yard. Also, put one person in charge of the dog, so that finger pointing does not become a problem; although, everyone must agree to keep their eye on the dog and correct him if he does something he should not be doing. This must be a family activity.

It is important to adhere to a regular schedule so that the dog knows when it is time for him to eat and sleep and when he will have an opportunity to do his business outside. This will help regulate his bladder so there will be fewer accidents. Always try to set the dog up for success.

The first few days, you may need to crate him if you are not home. This way, he won't get into trouble and you won't come home to find a mess. Slowly give him more freedom as he succeeds with what you have given him so far. Remember, he is learning your rules without understanding your language, so be patient and go slow.

Dogs also need to know what their role is in your family. Just as with a new job, they need to know who their boss is and who they can boss around. This is a time for patience and understanding. Some dogs will understand and comply right away, while other dogs may try to put themselves as the CEO. Keeping the dog on a regular schedule and making sure that everyone in the household adheres to the same rules will the dog will help the process along.

Remember that dogs are used to living in a pack environment, much like your family unit. There is a pack leader and there are followers. The dog needs to understand that he is not the pack leader and that you and your family members are not his followers. This can be accomplished many ways without being aggressive or creating a violent situation.

Contact a trainer or dog behaviorist if you are having problems establishing the pack leader status with your dog, but do allow the dog an adjustment period first. He should get the hang of things if you give him a chance and you will soon be enjoying each others company.

Written by Jennifer Andrade from A Dog for Life, LLC , which is dedicated to helping you choose and find the best dog for your family.
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